Over the years, my eating was out of control, and my prayers were
desperate pleas for help. And what did God
do? He answered me! Over and over! I’d pray, “God, if there is a way I should be
eating that will help me, just tell me!”
“God, I can’t do this! Please
help me!” “I’m in this pit, and I need
help! Where are you God?!”
And all along, He was answering me! The Overeater’s Anonymous leader told me on
my first meeting, “Get off sugar.” Two
doctors told me, “Watch those carbs.”
One counselor gently suggested I had a food addiction, the other
counselor suggested I check into to a place to help with addictions. While I was begging God for help, he was
sending people with the answer.
But I still didn’t get it. It wasn’t what I wanted to hear. Every time someone suggested I get off sugar,
I automatically shut them out, because, to me, that was NOT freedom.
My days consisted of wanting to eat all the time, feeling guilty
because I couldn’t manage to control myself, and planning my next meal (usually
while I was eating). I wanted freedom
from this obsession. I wanted to eat
like a normal person, and be able to stop when I was full! I wanted FREEDOM! But I didn’t want to give up sugar.
During the first week of August, I attended a ladies meeting at
church. The leader (whose name is also
Margaret), asked us if we would pray for her.
She then described every thought I had about my own weight issues. (And she was nowhere near my size,
either!) I asked them to pray for me, as
well.
One of the wonderful women with us said something about
obedience. I don’t remember exactly
what she said, but I knew that the word “obedience” was for me. Only, I didn’t understand exactly what I was
to do with that information! Obedience by
not giving into to gluttony? My Lord
knew how I had wrested with that very thought.
But no, it wasn’t that. It was
much more simple than that.
Obedience! It had taken me some
ten years to get to this point, and I. Still. Didn’t. Get. It.
God finally had to send me an up-close and personal example. My
co-worker, Salena, had lost over 100 pounds.
She works on a different floor than I do, and I hadn’t seen her in some
time. When I ran into her, she looked
fantastic! We had a long conversation
about what she was doing; and of course, she was eating low-carb. For some reason, my eyes didn’t glaze
over. I didn’t resist the idea of giving
up sugar. Suddenly, I was very aware that this was for me. It clicked.
Finally!
That freedom that I had so long prayed for? It’s mine.
From the first low carb day, no more continual cravings, no more
overwhelming urges to eat! No
binges! Do you hear what I’m
saying? NO BINGES! No daily feelings of just barely hanging on
to my “plan.” My Plan is Christ. He is my freedom, my strength. And I am hanging on with all my might!
1I
will lift up my eyes to the hills—
From whence comes my help?
2 My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth.
From whence comes my help?
2 My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth.
3 He will not allow your foot to be moved;
He who keeps you will not slumber.
4 Behold, He who keeps Israel
Shall neither slumber nor sleep. (Psalm 121)
He who keeps you will not slumber.
4 Behold, He who keeps Israel
Shall neither slumber nor sleep. (Psalm 121)
God is very good. He is
faithful, and to be trusted! I am more
grateful than I could ever express in words.
No binges! No binges! No binges! I'm writing this down in SHARPIE. Along with OBEDIENCE. I've got to wear a swimsuit in a few weeks! GREAT post.
ReplyDeleteThank you! It still a little chilly for a swimsuit! haha
DeleteHe was giving you the answers all along, indeed. Isn't it amazing when we finally start listening? He gave you the freedom he wanted you to have and it is the best freedom I do believe. Soon you too will be saying you lost 100 pounds!!
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haha I hope it's soon! I've been where I am long enough, I think!
DeleteLoved this. :D
ReplyDeleteYou are my inspiration! I am also a carb addict....and plan lunch while eating breakfast....and dinner while eating lunch! Tomorrow is Day 1 of my road to obedience. Thank you for taking my hand and tugging.....
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for commenting. I do wonder how your Day 1 is going??
DeleteMy Day 1 went great! Was able to walk a mile....but had to do it 1/2 in the morning and 1/2 in the afternoon. Eating was not too difficult. Already doing well the morning of Day 2!! I am pumped!!
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