At a very young age, my dad told me that if I had been a
boy, he would have named me Aloysius
Throckmorton. (I was never sure how to spell the name, but
it’s pronounced “Ala-wishus.”) My four
older brothers and sisters thought he was saying Aloysius Frogwarts, and he
thought that was so funny he called me “Aloysius Frogwarts” for a while,
before finally settling on Frog. By the
time I was a teenager, “Frog” was the only name he called me, and at least one
of his friends called me that, too.
When I was 16, my dad took my friend and me car hunting, and while at a car
sale, my friend whispered to me, “Why does your dad keep calling you
Frog?” I hadn’t noticed anything out of
the ordinary.
I’m not sure when he stopped calling me Frog, but it was
some time ago. I never thought I would
say it, but looking at my dear dad now, I long for the days when he had more
youth; those days when he called me Frog and sang to me, “Froggy Went
a’courtin’ and Froggy Did Ride, uh-huh.”
It IS hard too watch a beloved parent age. This post brought tears to my eyes as I thought of my own father.
ReplyDeleteHe was just starting to show signs that he was aging at 78 years old. I would catch a glimpse of an elderly, less vigorous man every now and then, and it would squeeze my heart just as reading this post did.
I didn't witness the full decline of aging, tho. He came home from work (Yes, at 78, he was zoning officer for our township)one day, had dinner, settled in to watch a game on TV--and had a massive heart attack. He died instantly.
The suddenness was best for him, not so much for me. It's been 10 years and I am weeping as I remember. Good parents always have a spot in your heart.
Deb
Awe - I know what you mean - I've lost both mine. I wish for one day back. sandie
ReplyDeleteawww...almost brings a tear to my eye...haven't thought of you as froggy in a very long time. :)
ReplyDeleteThat was sweet!! Thinking of my own father who passed away 30 years ago. I too wish for just one day back.
ReplyDeleteThanks Margaret!
Thank you, Donna. I'm really sorry about your dad...
DeleteHow cute with the name if you were a boy! You don't hear that name too often (ever!)
ReplyDeletewhat a sweet nickname you had! I'm sure your dad thinks of you as frog a lot of tmes in his thoughts :)
betty